Never Revenge, let Karma do its job

Hi everyone,

this morning a topic that might look banal but actually is not.

We are living in a world and in societies where more and more people seek revenge.

People who have been hurted or wronged have this crazy need of revenge, of getting something back, as if it could decrease the pain they feel, seeing someone else suffering.

Where is compassion?

Once a damage has been done it cannot be taken back!

So what is the point of punishing someone. Would you really feel better, feeling like “justice done”?

An eye for an eye?

Honor?

No. I am sorry but it does not work like this. If you have a little bit of heart you cannot be happy and enjoy seeing another human being suffer, not even if they did you wrong.

Leave to God the judgment. And by the way He is Endless Mercy, so …

It is so mean to wish bad luck to the others, to want revenge, to wish pain. This will not make us feel any better. Deep down how can you be happy of other people pain?

As Dalai Lama never stops advising, we all must seek compassion. And for who hurted us Karma does its job, not us.

And personally I think that the best wish is to hope they could realize the mistake they did and the pain they caused and feel consequently sorry for it. Repentance. And then forgivness, asking for forgivness and forgiving who did us wrong.

We all live and learn and make mistakes. We all must move forward. We all must forgive and apologize. And move on.

Painful but there is only one way to grow: through experiences that teach us more than hundred words.

So stop replying to anger with anger. Stop giving back hate to hate.

As Martin Luther King was saying:

“Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that.

Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.”

So let us reply with love and compassion to those who hurt us. Because who hates is the one who most needs love. Who is angry is the one who most needs compassion.

To hate and hurt is pointless.

If you start filling your soul with love, love to spread to everyone, you will begin to see colors again in this world.

We are here to love each other. And the purpose in life is to love. Material stuff won’t last. Only love moves on and is immortal, as our soul that needs love to be fed.

Start with loving yourself, forgiving your mistakes, letting go, moving on from the past where no one can anymore live.

Breathe. We are alive and this is already the most beautiful gift we should be thankful for.

Let us do not waste a single day. Every day should be a new chance to love, to give, to feel. We are here for being alive for real. Following our heart and what really matters. People and not objects. Love and not material richness or power.

Stop using people and wanting things. We must do the opposite.

Respect to everyone. Never consider yourself superior to anyone. We are all alike in this planet and we will all go back to ashes, not with gold or material richnesses or any of our belongings with us.

What is material will perish. Only love will survive and remain even when we will not anyomore be on this planet.

Becuase only love is ethernal.

Seek for souls, not for bodies.

Love people in their deep inner essence, and make connections based on true feelings that could last. True friendships. True love.

Life is short. Do not waste it in crazy revenge and hate.

Make your soul free from bad energies. Fill it with love and positivity and sunshine.

Love is and will be the answer always.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Do not be “average”! We cannot live half way even our relationships.

Hi everyone!

After my birthday, 40 years old! I am writing this post for all of you who still, like me, do not feel have reached enough, or do not feel enough with themselves, and just accept reality and even jobs and relationships in a half way. Not a fullfilling story or job, but something “average”.

I found on Facebook the word “situationship” and it is quite fitting. We find ourselves in just “situations” not being brave enough or not feeling the rights to say no: we all deserve a 100% relationship, a real fullfilling and satisfying job. If it is not the case, we do not have to be afraid to quit. We will not lose a realtionship or a job, actually we will gain ourselves back, because we cannot live half way. We all deserve a true relationship with a companion, and not just a lazy “situationship” for fun and no commitment, and just in the spare time.

We all deserve a job that can give us something, instead of just taking away all our menthal and physical energies.

We deserve better. And especially in relationships there are no bills to be paid, or car or exepenses. Relationships are a plus in our existence, so because they are not necessary, when they exist they must be full and 100% involving.

People who do not want a true commitment or a true bound are just immature. Every story we have with someone should be lived as a commitment.

Then we all make mistakes, but we must give the other person the 100% of us in terms of attention, care, life. Living a relationship half way is simply not possible because we must respect ourselves first, and we deserve a true union.

Excuses are not accepted. We all have and live busy lives. If we want to be with someone we must be not just in the spare time and when is convenient, but always, with our mind, heart and soul. Relationships must be fully lived. This trend of “situationships” when people are together but only when they are free otherwise they can forget about the other person’s existence, is so sad and unacceptable.

Better to be alone than wasting our time and life with who does not deserve us because is simply not there for us 100%. Mutual love, respect, attention, care, presence. It should be simple, then it is always up to us to make it complicated. But we all are called to live honestly not pretending feelings that are not there, not being afraid to say no, demanding a real relationship, always.

Life is too short to be lived half way.

Stop pretending and start truly living. Feeling, getting commitments, being truly alive with what we all deserve: relationships that are not an half way, but a complete giving. A risk, a bet that no one knows if it will work or not, but still an investement of ourselves we must do.

Life is not meant to be watched from distance, but lived from the inside with a true heart beating, never stopping dreaming for better days to come because we all deserve it.

And yes we can. If we can dream it, we can do it.

All the best to everyone of you.

Stay blessed in the name of love always. And remember that whenver you will be following your heart, it will never be a mistake. Live with a pure heart, follow it. Clean your soul from what does not matter. Nourish your thoughts with positivity, because being alive is the miracle we live every single day.

Take care

 

See you soon

 

Barbara

 

 

 

URGENT! We must SAVE HER now!

Hi everyone this is URGENT!!!!

Tomorrow 8 of October 2018 she will be sentenced to death due to Blasphemy accusation.

Pakistan. She has 5 children. Her only fault to be Catholic.

She is innocent. She did not offend the Prophet. We MUST save her!!!!

PLEASE SHARE THIS POST

Her life! She MUST STAY ALIVE!

Death for Blasphemy is not human!

We must save her!!!!!

PELASE share with this hashtag #FreeAsiaBibi

Please!!!

Thanks you all

Barbara

here the article to share also.

https://www.catholicsinpakistan.org/breaking-supreme-court-to-hear-the-final-appeal-against-the-execution-of-asia-bibi/

 

Undress your soul

Hi there!

Sorry again for being absent …

You know there are so many different kind of silences, and not just between two people.

Behind this one my messy life, and my mood shifting … not easy: 38 years old, still trying to understand what I really want to do with my life.

Why this title?

Because yes fashion is about clothes and how to get dressed, and how to look like, and make up, and shoes and hair style …

But the best outfit we could ever wear is our shining soul coming out from underneath our clothes.

So sometimes yes, dress is important: we cannot wear pajama at a wedding! But I think people sometimes forget that the best thing to do is just to undress a bit our soul with heavy covers.

We need to shine. We need to make our alive essence sparkling, and being able to glow and spread light all around.

I have always been told that I look much more beautiful when I smile. And I always wondered how can mood affect so much on the external appearance of someone and also other people’s perception.

Yes. We need to wear our best smile, that doesn’t have to be a fake one, but a true one, because finally we give room to our soul to be, to exist, to shine, to be noticed by others.

I always hear of people looking forward to copy someone else’s look. But what about being ourselves?

We are beautiful. All of us. And first of all our beauty is inside us. Hidden. Let’s undress our souls. Let us make the world look at our real us, our real essence.

Starting from the eyes: mirror of the soul, and actually more than mirror I would say door of the soul.

The magic of a glance. There is no glittering powder stronger in sparkle.

We don’t have to be afraid to show up. We deserve to be out there as much as anyone else.

Life is now.

Let’s be out there, and not hidden behind a computer screen. Let’s shine and live for real.

And not being afraid of what other people might think because we are ourselves.

If people don’t like us, it is not our problem, but theirs.

So let’s step out into the sunshine, and let’s undress our soul from all the heaviness and life covers.

We are here to shine and be.

Have a good life everyone.

Take care and see you soon.

I promise