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Undress your soul

Hi there!

Sorry again for being absent …

You know there are so many different kind of silences, and not just between two people.

Behind this one my messy life, and my mood shifting … not easy: 38 years old, still trying to understand what I really want to do with my life.

Why this title?

Because yes fashion is about clothes and how to get dressed, and how to look like, and make up, and shoes and hair style …

But the best outfit we could ever wear is our shining soul coming out from underneath our clothes.

So sometimes yes, dress is important: we cannot wear pajama at a wedding! But I think people sometimes forget that the best thing to do is just to undress a bit our soul with heavy covers.

We need to shine. We need to make our alive essence sparkling, and being able to glow and spread light all around.

I have always been told that I look much more beautiful when I smile. And I always wondered how can mood affect so much on the external appearance of someone and also other people’s perception.

Yes. We need to wear our best smile, that doesn’t have to be a fake one, but a true one, because finally we give room to our soul to be, to exist, to shine, to be noticed by others.

I always hear of people looking forward to copy someone else’s look. But what about being ourselves?

We are beautiful. All of us. And first of all our beauty is inside us. Hidden. Let’s undress our souls. Let us make the world look at our real us, our real essence.

Starting from the eyes: mirror of the soul, and actually more than mirror I would say door of the soul.

The magic of a glance. There is no glittering powder stronger in sparkle.

We don’t have to be afraid to show up. We deserve to be out there as much as anyone else.

Life is now.

Let’s be out there, and not hidden behind a computer screen. Let’s shine and live for real.

And not being afraid of what other people might think because we are ourselves.

If people don’t like us, it is not our problem, but theirs.

So let’s step out into the sunshine, and let’s undress our soul from all the heaviness and life covers.

We are here to shine and be.

Have a good life everyone.

Take care and see you soon.

I promise

 

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Dress your body … with henna tattoo!

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Hi there …

Ok, sorry for my silence … yes I feel the need to apologize … it was quite a while.

But in this silence time I’ve also had the chance, like last year, to work for 10 days in an amazing exhibition fair in Florence. It takes place every year, once a year for 10 days till the 1st of May (it started on the 22nd) it is called:

MOSTRA INTERNAZIONALE DELL’ARTIGIANATO Mostra Internazionale dell’Artigianato Firenze

An exhibition where you can find really whatever you want, from national Italian handicraft to clothes, to international stands from Morocco to India, Pakistan, Iran, Lithuania, France, Spain, Mexico, Tunisia … all countries really! I cannot mention all of them, and do not get me wrong if I do not put a complete list here but there are so many countries! Really a worldwide reality.

From jewels to clothes, forniture, food …

An amazing experience, I advice you to do it once, because it is a little bit like travelling to each country just moving from one stand to another one.

And also in terms of food we go from Iranian dates to the Morocco area where there was a restaurant (I have tried one evening lamb cous cous …) and a full stand of typical sweets, I have to confess my lunch break a couple of times was just some of those and an amazing Moroccan mint tea to come with.

And from Sardinia typical goat cheese to spicy sauces from Calabria Region, oranges from Sicily, French baguette, amazing Campania buffalo mozzarella cheese … and also famous restaurants like Quinoa that I really love, and I enjoyed once at lunch with my mum. Amazing vegetarian food. They have a restaurant in central Florence I have also rated on Trip Advisor because really worthy.

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I have to stop writing about food. I actually have a food blog with my recipes.

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Well concerning this post, and my website, I would like to tell you today that while working there I decided to do something very very special: henna tattoo.

Yes you understood it well: HENNA TATTOO.

I have no tattoos, nothing, just earrings one per ear.

So it was quite a shock, but an amazing surprise to rediscover the beauty of my hands, seeing them differently. This way!

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So I would like to know what do you think about it?

Have you ever done one, would you ever do it? Any real tattoo?

I was working in an Italian clothing stand in the fair, and I had to ask the permission for it, for doing it and then working, but I did not regret it at all! On the contrary it was superb! And my customers loved it too! Sales went on very well even if I was selling Italian clothes, with those hands! So no prejudices!

Then of course it depends what job you are doing, which is your outfit, which accessories you wear … But if you do not have any specific working restrictions, why not?

You could also ask for one in a part of your body less visible instead of front hands …

And it lasts only ten days, so really worthy, even just to try it before doing a real tattoo, just to see how you feel like, with your skin looking different …

I really advice you to do it, what do you have to lose?

It would have been nice also to have one on the back … Now my henna tattoo is gone, and I am missing it. It was really beautiful!

I do think it is a way to rediscover your body beauty. It is a form of art. It is also a real artistic talent.

There was a catalogue to chose from, but in my case I didn’t chose anything, no design was followed, just a new drawing created at the very moment, not copied. Amazing!

I have to say Kushal Pal (Mani) really impressed me, you can find him on Facebook  Kushal Pal (Mani) if you are curious and have info about his work, a real profession and passion I should say because he has a real talent.

And art is a form of beauty.

I really would advise everyone to try it, to really find back your own beauty.

Something that suits you, so ask for advice. We are all different, depending also on our outfit, what we usually wear, our very personal shape and lines.

And don’t forget about your beauty!

Rediscover not just your external beauty but also your inner beauty which is why you are worthy!

Your value! Never forget who you are.

And shine always from inside yourself!

Then you will be able to wear anything or nothing or just a henna tattoo …

You are amazing! Remember that all of you guys!

We are called to shine in this world.

Be ourselves and live our life, beautiful because unique and just ours!

Take care all of you!

Thanks for reading me.

See you next

Barbara

Easter dress code

Easter …

Happy Easter everyone first of all!

I was just wondering which is your own outfit for Easter?

Christmas celebrations is, let’s say, quite easier because it is winter (I know not in Australia but …), and is big family gatherings, with parents and closed ones … so definitely the outfit needed goes towards the smart side. But not as smart as New Year’s Eve, I mean more sober, with less sparkling lights, and more warm colors and red. Yes, red. I remember this past Christmas my dress was just red, a warm dark colored red, but red. Red seems the perfect color for those festivities. But not for Easter.

So then what?

Well mostly depends on the weather. And when Easter falls each year.

This year, 2017, we are speaking about the 16th of April, so already Spring time, started a while ago, and quite hot also. Some rains here in Florence, but no more coats for sure! No more wool also.

So then what?

It mostly depends where we have to go to.

My Easter will be quite simple tomorrow, just me and my mum, so I do not have to exaggerate, I wouldn’t have anyway.

So maybe not jeans and hoodie, but not even a smart evening outfit too.

But for sure we have to make a difference with everyday dressing, so maybe we could go for some details to stress that it is a “special day”.

I remember once, years ago, I was just on a trip with friends, so Easter lunch was as simple and as warm as friends company is.

We use to say: “Christmas with your family, and Easter with whoever you want!”

So in the end it will be up to you! Depending on the company and the location of course! High heels in the countryside maybe not …

Be at ease. Not too formal. Something you can feel you are aware of the special day that is, but with a more “soul dressing” than body clothing.

What about the colors?

Freedom of choice. Maybe a touch of color yes, not black or grey only. We need colors. As color therapy also teaches, we have to be lifted up also by bright colors.

My city, Florence, has the Purple as color for our football team, so I do love it really, I am wearing it today also! So why not a nice purple?

So for Easter dress code I would advice moderation, but colors!

And have a lovely Easter time everyone, trying not to eat too much chocolate and cakes! But anyway enjoy!

I remember spending my Easter in London, when I was living there, quite many years ago, working … Some chocolate arrived anyway but it was a working outfit I was wearing …

Anyway, most of all we have to feel Easter inside, in our hearts.

So let’s the light inside us be the shining light that dresses ourselves also.

Love has to be the best ever outfit we could ever wear, in our sight, in our gestures, to make everything brighter.

Happy Easter again to everyone.

You all take care!

See you next

Barbara

 

How smart are you? What is elegance?

Being smart … elegant … posh …

How?

What does it really mean? Is it a good thing?

Do we have to wear golden clothes, or shining diamonds to be elegant?

Or it is about a different kind of sparkle and light?

Definitely there are so many examples of people, still alive or not, that are an emblem of elegance even if they are not wearing any silver nor gold, nor shining dresses nor accessories.

Just to quote one that I did love so much, and I still do: Audrey Hepburn. She was elegant even wearing any casual dress. It was a matter of style: her presence, not just merely the posture nor the manners.

So then?

What is your concept of elegance? Is it just in fashion or a personal definition despite of clothes?

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Little princesses grow?

Starting from when we are little we can be dressed like a noble princess, but one thing is the dress, the other is the person.

In this world who only looks at the apparence it is easy to have prejudices, but if we look well to each other we will realize how elegant people are even in daily life clothes, without ceremony dresses and so on.

This does not mean that is not nice to dress up, but it is not a necessary condition to be really elegant.

I would like to give you another example of elegance: Kate Middleton. You may like her or not but for me she is a real example of elegance. Which has a sober side, in the sense that to be elegant we do not need to be too much. Not too much make-up, nor too many jewels, nor too much of anything.

In latin we say “in media stat virtus”. It is so true, it can be translated “in the middle virtue stays”.

Balance. Always, in anything in life.

Then of course it depends also on the event we are attending, the choice of the right outfit.

For my first novel presentation I chose a Ralph Laurent dress which for me is really beautiful because it has some very special details but it is not excessive. Not too short, nor too flashy …

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With a black jacket it was for me just perfect, and I was at ease with it.

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And I would like to remember you that with a dress that already has a motive, tights should be simple. On the contrary if the dress is simple then you could dare with some tights which have a motive, or a design … Again balance. And elegance is really the concept of “less is better than more”.

In Italy we say not to look like a “Christmas tree”! To say that too much is too much. Too many points of attraction for the sight.

And what about just a simple classical black dress?

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This picture is from my book, a few years ago. I would go now for a less red lipstick, thinner heels, maybe black tights, and what about a nice hair chignon (hair bun) or just very straight hair?

To look more elegant sometimes is enough even just an accessory.

What about a nice necklace or a foulard?

 

Pearls maybe could a bit “old fashion” for someone, but even just a simple jewel, not necessarily a real one: on the market with very little money everyone could buy jewels that just look like real ones but are not. Or even something original with some semi-precious stones like amethyst, or even glass …

And what about a casual-elegant outfit? How do you like it?

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You see even an hoodie can become very smart … This one is a kid’s wear.

But even adults …

Sometimes in a garment a detail can really make the difference.

Like even a plain black cardigan can become something completely different.

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This one is maybe a bit too much. Sometimes even just a little decoration can change everything in an outfit.

Most important thing you have to follow your curves.

Because elegant means also not showing all the lines of the body but marking the most important ones only.

So for instance a nice straight falling pair of trousers will do better than a skinny one if you are not that slim in your legs.

Body lines have to be defined by clothes, not to look more than what they are.

Also definitely showing too much is not elegant. I am talking about the décolleté in particular or too short skirts. But there are some outfits where there could be an exception for this general advice. I have in mind even some garments seen on the “red carpet”. It all depends who is wearing what, and how, and with what kind of surrounding rest of the outfit (shoes, tights, jackets …).

So rules for elegance: less in general and more simplicity, following the lines, attention to details and accessories (and not too many of them also) …

And regarding accessories the bag is really an essential part of our outfit.

It has to be coordinated. And if you are not sure remember that a small black bag is always a safe bet. Then of course the design, the material …

And do we want to talk about shoes?

If you have a black dress, or a dark color dress, shoes should be dark, or at least not lighter in color than the dress itself.

Harmony in colors, harmony in shapes.

Harmony.

Elegance is all a matter of balance.

Let me know if there is any specific subject you would like to talk about regarding this.

It has been a pleasure to write this article.

Hope you got inspiration for your elegance, trying to enhance and not depress your figure in clothes that could not be suitable for your curves.

Be yourself! Always.

And a true smile is always a good starting point to light up any outfit.

Thanks for reading

Take care

See you next

Barbara

 

 

 

 

 

 

Saint Patrick day … are we enough “green”?

Hi there …

Today another quite special post … a bit provocative if you want …

The excuse to write it: Saint Patrick … today 17th of March …

Big Irish festival, but celebrated worldwide with all shining in green, even buildings with nice lighting games.

But are we really that “green”?

How many green garments do you have or wear? Do you like it as a color? There are so many different shades! Not talking about grey, but of green of course!

Green color reminds me about the connection with our planet … Mother Nature … because from the grass to the forests … there are so many difference nuances.

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I like i.e. “sage green” quite much, and also all the kind of green that go almost towards the blue, the darker ones.

We can think about environment in fashion not just selecting colors connected to the environment, but also choosing materials that are taking care of the environment in the making process and as materials themselves.

What about Cotton 100% Organic?

Even in food Organic seems to be so important as a choice sometimes …

And what about harmful chemicals?

It is important to be protected from substances potentially dangerous for our health.

And what about recycling?

Have you ever thought about it?

Next time instead of throwing away your old garments in the general bin, why not bringing them to the collection centres?

Then I am not going to enter in the big chapter of fur and special animals leathers.

But the principle even there is the respect of Nature and its creatures, not making them suffer for human pleasure, while on the market there are available so many not “real” furs and similar garments that could be just perfect if you like the style but without involving real animals!

Anyway …

Tell me about your favorite “green” garment.

Thanks for reading me again …

See you soon!

 

 

 

 

 

 

Lilac ribbon- 15th of March 2017 National day for Dca (= eating disorders in Italy)

Hi again …

Today 15th of March 2017 an article that I said to myself I had to write.

Why?

Because I am explaining you if you read the following lines …

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Today is the National day for the “eating disorders”. Lilac ribbon.

What does this mean?

It means that there are still too many people on this planet that are suffering for eating disorders.

Fashion has a big responsibility in this. Because the idea, the ideal model for “high fashion” has to have a size that cannot go above certain very strict standards.

Bra size, hips … lots of restrictions that sometimes go against each single person natural shape, not considering extra kilos but just the body shape.

Newspapers are still filled by articles of girls killing themselves just because they do stop eating, or they eat and then they force themselves to throw out all of what they’ve just taken in … because they see themselves too fat, where on the contrary are just skeletons.

And it exists also the opposite situation: not being able to stop eating, so putting on so much weight, not even being able to have a normal life with all related also heart and circulation issues and critical health conditions.

But there are not just these extreme terrible cases, majority of eating disorders could be at different levels, not to risk life, but enough to ruin a good relationship with food, making it not a pleasure moment but a punishment in both ways when we decide not to eat or when we force ourselves to eat too much and even after having stopped the starving feeling.

But why?

Do we really want to be who we are not?

Can we all possibly become as thin as those magazine models?

Is this our reality?

Or the model is it the perfect blond with even lips that do not look natural, a Playboy doll style?

What is it beauty?

What are we looking for? Who is the model we dream to look like?

Are we happy of our life? Or are media just showing a perfection that is just a mask?

And is a perfect looking body the real key for success and happiness in life?

Or is it just a way to attract the wrong people who will look for us just for it, our body, and not for who we really are?

The only way to have a good relationship with our body is to be in peace with ourselves. Starting from accepting ourselves, who we are, and also our external look.

Of course we are called to take care of our body as well of our soul: mens sana in corpore sano is the Latin famous sentence: a healthy mind in healthy body.

But do we have to become paranoid about our body? Pushing everything over the limit? I am thinking also about all gym addicted people …

Too much is too much in everything.

Balance. To find a balance mainly within ourselves.

I want to remind you all that to look beautiful the best way is to wear a true smile. And where does it come from? From the within peace of mind.

How can we find it? Where do we get it from?

Nowhere. It has to start and come within ourselves: realizing that nobody is perfect, not even life, nor ourselves. So we have to accept what we cannot change, and even for what concerns changes we are not switches, everything needs its time, so we cannot pretend too much, we have to be patient and accept what we cannot change and work on what we can work on, and most of all start from loving ourselves, even with our past mistakes, with our limits …

And I am telling you this because I have learned it.

When I was younger at university I was free but lonely. Knowing lots of people but sometimes having the feeling of having no one really caring for me. Alone for the first time in another city for studying. Freedom. Nobody preparing the dinner for you, so no food “rules”.

I was working also as PR in the city university evening parties and discos. I wanted to be and look perfect: so I was going to the swimming pool, fasting, skipping dinner, arriving at the disco where I was supposed to spend all evening with public relation with other university students … I was smiling, speaking with everyone, checking that the evening was going fine, having my list at the entrance …

The apparently very nice life: I was able also to get free drinks, nothing to pay, just to enjoy myself talking with everyone and going around the place. Nothing special but what else may a university student want from the evenings outside? People, music, free drinks …

Well to tell you the truth, I was going back home and opening the fridge! Anything: I am not ashamed to say it now, because I hope it will help who at the moment is in the same situation I was at the time. Simply completely unhappy about myself and my life, just wanting to look perfectly beautiful and ok from outside, but inside actually “screaming” because I was not living a life I was really happy about.

And the food was the punishment because I was not able to be enough slim, because my size has never dropped below a certain level: I am like this, but I could not accept it having a different idea in my mind of what I wanted to look like, like someone who wasn’t me.

I think we only have to tend to be the best version of ourselves. Not copying anyone, not wanting to look like anyone else, just to be ourselves at our best. So of course fit, and healthy with no extra kilos as a weight, but without becoming crazy about perfection. It does not exist and it will not make ourselves happy anyway.

I think even media give us a wrong example. Women to be attractive have to wear heels and short skirts, and breast showing tops and so on …

Absolutely not! We are women because we are women, not due to what we wear.

And even the idea of being sexy. What is it? We do not have to attract sex, but we must follow and look for only true love.

So being loved for who we are, and not for what we look like. For our soul, not for our body.

Of course we do have a body as well, but we do not have to forget that it is not the most important part of ourselves.

Our soul must be beautiful.

And even sport has to be a pleasant activity to get fit and in harmony with our body, not like a medicine to push up muscles in perfect sculpted shape.

So today let’s start our own fashion looking at the our real self, as Christina Aguilera song “Beautiful”.

And let’s work to get the best out of ourselves, not with wrong models or ideas, but just with the love we always must have for ourselves, because first rule if we want to love someone else and we want to be loved, is to be able to love truly ourselves always everyday starting from the mirror morning first look.

So no more food punishments.

Food has to be a necessary good pleasure, with an healthy balance diet especially in quantities that makes the real difference.

Being in peace with ourselves is the first step for being in peace also with all the rest of the planet.

So let’s start now a new beginning with a new glance in the mirror, not to judge us and punish us, but to love us and take care of ourselves.

We all have to improve ourselves and grow but it can be done only with real true love, and this way will do everything for us and not against us, and it will be a pathway we will enjoy to follow, with maybe little results day by day, but definitely with a different purpose and awareness, a true beautiful shining peace of mind.

And I finish just reminding you that stress helps in most cases just to put on weight! And increases our food disorders. So deep breath, a couple more hugs with who really loves us and cares about us in our life, and let’s go!

Life is here waiting! It has just started, we are in!

Let’s live it the best, and always always always only OUR WAY! Life is one and is just ours! Do not waste ourselves. Let’s take care of ourselves from now on every single moment.

We are the changement. We can find only inside ourselves true happiness: it cannot come from outside.

Let’s love life, because life is beautiful.

Never to give up!

 

Thanks for reading me and see you next!

 

 

Kid’s wear … a big chapter in the FASHION market

Here I am again!

This time quite a different topic …

Do you have any children?

Personally no, I do not have any. And I am not looking for having any for the time being. But I have attended in January the famous Pitti Bimbo exhibition, here in Florence, and I can say that it is a fascinating world for what concerns fashion and the clothing business.

One maybe obvious thing to say is that kid’s wear is not just simply an adult’s wear shrunk in size! It is much more! And different … and unique garments that only kids can wear looking amazingly beautiful!

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One thing that I feel like saying is that kids have their own world which is precious, so I agree that children should not be dressed like little women or men, but like kids.

I don’t want to put here pictures of me when I was little, but I quite enjoyed looking back at them, and seeing how sometimes I was dressed so pretty! Thanks mum for the clothing choices and matches!

Then I remember when I was little, the first time I was trying to use make-up. And it was just for Carnival that make-up was permitted … the last day at school performance … these kind of events.

And playing with clothes in my grandmother wardrobe, wearing no matter what, and jewels: necklaces … Modeling was a kind of a game.

Kids should remain kids. They have time to face adulthood and all its beauties but also problems.

Another important thing is that kids should feel comfortable in what they are wearing, and not just look cute.

I remember at the elementary we were obliged to wear skirts, as girls, and I was not caring, I was playing football with my school mates anyway!

There are so many different garments.

For going to school, for going to play sports, for attending a birthday party and special occasions …

At Pitti really quite many inspirations for new outfits.

If there is any kid’s wear BUYER within you readers, please feel free to contact me privately for business proposals.

barbara.perucca@gmail.com

If you are a STYLIST who would like to create something, your line of clothing … or have any idea about it, you are more than welcome also to write me! Let’s see if ideas can become reality.

Below some pictures to show the Pitti exhibition world.

If you will be able to attend next year is a very interesting fair. Just once a year, but worthy.

So many different outfits …

In colors, design …

Here I just put some random pictures I took at the Pitti exhibition with no specific reference to any brand. In some stands they did not even allow me to take pictures …

Thanks again for reading me …

Next post different topic!

But I hope I gave you some inspirations in this one about such a big world as kid’s wear is …

Feel free to write me for more ideas and projects.

See you soon

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Almost Spring time … what’s below the clothes? Our body we must love it!

Dear readers …

Spring’s approaching quickly.

 

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Weather’s changing. So it’s time to put away the wool and start wearing lighter clothes!

But what’s below the clothes?

Do we love our body?

Or winter time has made us put on some extra weight?

Nobody is perfect, so let’s start considering this. So regarding the outfit choices go for something you always feel at ease wearing.

Be yourself!

Inspired by a Facebook post I just replied to, I would like to give you here some easy tips to get better in shape with no efforts.

First of all cut desserts and sugars in general. It is not a big sacrifice. Just eat them more rarely.

Prefer brown sugar to white one and even better honey.

Second important thing to remember: avoid white bread and carbohydrates that are not wholegrain!

White pasta is ok, but better cutting white bread: GI too much higher.

Eat fresh fruit and vegetables. Less meat. More fish.

Cheese better very few times, if you could do only once a week would be ideal. You could go for yogurt at breakfast also or as a light dinner once in a while. And milk of course at breakfast so you have your calcium intake. With cheese you get too many fats.

Reduce or avoid for some time booze. I know, it is difficult, Sommelier’s speaking. But you will see. Alcohol is related also to our hormones balance and it is 7 kcal per gram! Even beer, just stop for a couple of weeks and you will see incredible results!

Avoid sparkling sugary drinks like Coke. Just fresh fruit juices and the ones with no added sugars in the ingredients (pineapple i.e.).

Ok for coffee, but not too many, especially avoid coffee in the late afternoon/evening if you want to get better sleep.

Sleeping is so important! The less you sleep the more you put on weight! It is not me saying it, but science: it is the melatonine balance that gets affected by the lack of sleep. At least 7 hours in a row. And avoid keeping technology close to the bed.

Drink at least 2 litres of water per day.

No snacks nor breaks. Just 3 meals: breakfast, lunch and dinner.

If you cannot do other way just fruit would be ok for the hunger.

No chips, cookies or any other packed food.

Stay simple. And also vegetables not to be cooked too much not to lose their vitamines content.

Do some sport. Yes. I will maybe talk about sport clothing in another post.

Anything.

Even just a walk. Some physical activity to boost your metabolism and gain back energies.

We all need it with the season change.

No butter, no margarine, nothing: for fats just extra virgin olive oil to use for cooking and raw.

Walnuts and dried fruits are important in a well balanced diet, but without exceeding: they are very high in calories.

And last advice: eat with calmness, and reduce quantities of everything.

Not a big effort, but quantity makes the biggest difference.

Try to cheat your mind using smaller plates, or at least make the food appearance to be like a full rich portion.

Don’t do other things while eating. Concentrate on the moment.

Enjoy the food. Chew slowly.

And I promise your weight will change!

Just little changements but with great results.

Variety.

And simply less.

If you prepare too much food put the rest in the freezer: it will be another meal another time.

So are you ready for lighter clothes in spring time?

If you have any chance to go for a swim, swimming is one of the best sports to get back quickly in shape.

But anyway stay active. Days are getting better, so don’t stay indoor: go outside, enjoy the sunshine.

If you would like to get inspired for your recipes check my blog:

www.food4wine.wordpress.com

And don’t worry!

You are beautiful! All of you! No exclusions!

Stop punishing yourself with food if you are not happy about yourself.

Just breath. Start back loving you. Life is beautiful and remember you are in charge of your life! Be happy!

Wear what suits you and start to get back your balance with your body which is self acceptance first.

What is the part of your body you love the most?

The one you love less?

I will answer in next post to all your messages in reply to see what the best outfit or garment could be for you!

And do not be afraid to dare a little change!

Try today a different make up! I will speak about make up soon also.

A new hair cut?

Remember also that true beauty comes from within.

So shine!

Don’t be afraid of who you are! Just be!

Smile, and the whole world will smile you back. And a smile is the best outfit for any occasion!

Thanks for reading me and see you next!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Vintage – are we old fashion?

Ok …

Another post.

I promise I will write many more. But you know, in anything, the beginning is just the worst, even if also the most exciting and hardest step at the same time. It is like before jumping off a cliff. Scary but beautiful. Each step is. An up hill climb. Life’s ladder steps.

So today I would like to talk to you about Vintage, and my concept of vintage.

First of all a question: are we “vintage”? Are we feeling old fashion? And what does it mean?

Is it real, or just another way to say we don’t fit in?

Well my point of view is a 38 years old one’s.

Yes, I am 38. Nobody believes it, but it is true.

Do I have to consider myself “vintage”, “old”?

Not at all! Not even when I will be 50!

As I wrote we have to believe in ourselves, in our beauty at any age, in our own being and style.

End of January I have attended the 2017 Vintage Selection 29 in Florence.

At the Stazione Leopolda in the same days of Pitti Filati, quite important fashion events, actually Pitti fair should be worldwide known, I guess.

An event for vintage clothing: real vintage or a re-make in vintage style.

I never bought anything that was “belonging to someone else”, so I could not wear anything really “vintage” in its peculiar meaning, but still if I open my wardrobe I do have quite many garments that date back many years ago: the famous sixties i.e. so actually I have and wear “vintage” sometimes.

Not ashamed to say that I still have and use some of my dad’s shirts. Silky, colorful, smart … and not just those! And things also belonging to my mum or my aunt …

So vintage is not that far from us! We might all have relatives who maybe once gave us something to keep and wear.

But I don’t want to show you now the things I have in my own wardrobe, or at least not in this post.

But I got a few inspiration from the clothes I was watching in the exhibition.

And I do believe that actually “vintage” is not “dead”. Because even nowadays fashion sometimes steps back to take some inspiration from “older” stuff.

I remember when denim trousers came back again with wider bottom leg: the so called “zampa di elefante” in Italian, literally “elephant foot”, in English “Bell-bottoms” or “flares”. Do you remember them?

I love them, and actually I wear them, I mean sometimes I like to have trousers ending wider so I can put just short boots below them. And also I have to confess I am quite tall 1,87 m (more than 6 ft). So for me it has always been so difficult even when I was little to find trousers who could reach my ankles. And these kind of trousers helped me a lot to be able finally to find in the market something I could wear feeling comfortable in their length.

Quite funny that nowadays even in men’s clothing we see pretty many examples of trousers that actually look quite short, and intentionally are left or put up shorter to show socks and visible ankles. So you see … You never know where fashion’s going!

But let’s go back to the vintage.

Here some pictures I took at the exhibition …

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What if you didn’t know they were vintage? You see what I mean …

Here some more pics.

What is important in fashion, in my opinion, is to dare. Yes, you heard well, to dare.

And not just talking about models in posh fashion parades. We all should.

Try to make different matches. Using different colors, new ones …

When you browse shopping stop looking always for the same kind of garments you use to wear. Even accessories …

Dare! Change! Try!

That does not mean to become ridiculous wearing something Carnival style or too extravagant for a daily routine life. It depends a lot on the occasion we have to chose an outfit for. And it depends on you.

But sometimes even just one garment, or one accessory, i.e. a bag, could change the whole look.

So why not?

Always always always trust your gut, and wear what you like, no matter what it is.

Vintage?

Perfect. I mean you are wearing it now, 2017, so it will be anyway a garment lived now. So wear it your way, inside your outfit and style, as part of your outfit, not trying to imitate anyone, not even an old “hero”, but just being yourself.

This is what really matters: YOU!

Just one character jumped to my mind straight away writing this: Audrey Hepburn.

How amazing was she? A lot. But it was because it was her!

So even if I love her style, her posture, her silhouette … I cannot be her. I am myself!

And what is class? We say it is not water.

So it will not be any garment making you be classy and elegant. It will not be copying anyone.

You have to be classy, yourself. Look elegant yourself. Which means to be you.

Because the best way you can dress is to wear your personality, who you are and not who you pretend to be.

Only this way you will make your own style just following what fits you the most, what you like the most, but not on someone else, but on you!

So enjoy vintage your way!

As Frank Sinatra song: we have to live everything our way! Starting from our wardrobe!

Thanks for reading!

See you soon

PS none of the pictures I have posted in this post is really “my style” but it is always nice to look, appreciate, gets ideas and inspiration … and that exhibition was very interesting from this point of you.

There were also original garments not just in terms of colors and materials but also shape.

Here some more pics.

The beauty of life is that we are all alike and different at the same time, so maybe some of you will love the garments I have posted the pictures of here in this post, and some will not.

Anyway feel free to leave a comment if you like, and maybe get inspired!

Because I guess sometimes we forget one of the most beautiful gifts we have: sight!

So look around, notice things. And in clothing you know how much this matters. With our eyes we already touch materials, appreciate colors, models, matches …

Thanks again for reading, and see you next!

Barbara

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

All begins with the mirror

Ok.

We have to start somewhere!

So … here we are!

A first post about our own fashion … our wardrobe!

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We open the door of our wardrobe and we just stand in front of its mirror … never looking as we would like to.

No panic!

Let’s start from a first important concept about fashion: it has to give colors to our day!

There have been lots of studies about personal mood and the color of the garments we decide to wear. So first important rule in the morning: always follow your guts!

If you feel like wearing a specific color, just do it! There is a reason behind it.

If we feel determinate a vivid color could be our cup of tea, like red that is not just the color of love and passion but also of strength, energy … showing up …

If you are looking for a sort of balance you will maybe find yourself in the mood of wearing something green, or blue that also communicates calmness, and it is an anti-stress color.

Sophisticated in purple. More ground bound with brown color.

Black always makes us look slimmer, but also is a color with authority and respect demand.

So just follow your mood! You have to start your day feeling comfortable in what you are wearing. Being able to forget about it when busy, so being at ease, not feeling overlooked or judged.

By the way there will always be people watching us, and judging, so let’s stop caring about it!

If we are confident with our look, why should we care about what other people would say?

Let’s stop living for the judgement of the others. Let’s be just ourselves. Being comfortable with us and our look. No one else matters. Ourselves first, in a good way.

Because if we do not love ourselves first, how can we be able to love the others?

So let’s move on. Dress up. Go out in the world and don’t be afraid of being who you are!

We have to remind us that we are beautiful. And our own beauty doesn’t need to be compared with anyone else’s, because it is just ours.

And if we are relaxed and in peace with ourselves, our sparkling eyes will make our soul shine brightly in any outfit.

So no worries.

Beauty doesn’t have to be copying anyone. But being ourselves!

Let’s make it ours. And let’s make our own fashion: ours!

 

Thanks for reading this very first post.

Going more into fashion with the following ones …

Keep following me!

Barbara