CAROLA RACKETE IS FREE NOW BUT …

Hi everyone!

I needed to write this article, urgently.

We are facing here in Italy something unacceptable at all!

What happened?

We have a Minister who made 2 racist laws against immigrants. With the first one they have no more the right to receive psycological support, nor Italian classes and they are also litterary kicked out from the centres where they were given a shelter and some food. And no documents for them, so just invisible ghosts, because without legal documents how can they even apply for regular legal jobs?

And if you have followed what happened with the SeaWatch and Carola Rackete, all this is just madness!

Now Salvini, our Minister, made this law that whoever saves lives in the Mediterranean is a criminal and is fined with thousands of euros to pay and their boat is taken away.

MADNESS!

Please I am beggin all the planet to stop this.

Two days ago 300 people, also children and women, have been removed from a building! A school! Also not useful now because of summer holiday! So what was the point? The school was empty. These people needed a shelter. They were just sent in the street!

While we have at the same time Casapound, that is a far right, fascist movement, whose people have been occupying a building in Rome for years, not paying electricity and nothing … and no one is kicking them out, even if they are not poor, and they do not need to stay there! And that building could be used in many other useful ways.

Also here there are so many more episodes of racism, homophobia, islamophobia, antisemits … We have become such a worse country. I feel ashamed to read articles every time on the news …

Things must be changed, now!

And Salvini now seems to be involved asking Russia money to support his political campaign he won, for the elections.

And he has told so many lies also about people sorrounding him who were the ones (Savoini) trying to make the deal with Russia. There have been found written documents who prove he is a lier.

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We are asking him to reply to the parliament about the truth of what is happening and what happened for real. He is not showing up, while as a minister, he should come in the parliament to explain if he has nothing to hide.

Please we are also asking Europe to make the truth come out.

We need to get rid of him because he is against Europe and with Putin they were planning to destroy the European Union and all the economical European system.

Please help!

Thanks to you all

 

All the best

Barbara

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Free Palestine! Stop the apartheid (hafrada)

Hi everyone!

Today is the first day of #Ramadan,

so Ramadan Kareem to all of you wherever you are on this planet.

I am not a Muslim, but I love Islam and my heart is with all Muslim people worldwide, the ones that are discriminated, hated, hurted, offended and insulted for their identity.

Islam, I will never get tired repeating it, is a religion of peace and love! As much as all other religions!

So God bless you all! We are all brothers on this planet! All equal, all children of God.

 

I want today to write an article about #Palestine, because we are all reading the news these days, and it is time to say enogh to the crimes of #Israel, and #Nethanyau specifically. Enough killings and bombing, and tortures, and jail.

I love Jews (I know a few also), I have lot of respect for their religion, but Israel, I mean the state of Israel is a criminal. Worldwide there have been strikes and even young Jewish generations have come in the street to protest against Israeli government.

Such a shame that these last elections Nethanyau won again.

Because also many Jews know and are not afraid to say out loud that Nethanyau is a criminal!

I will not write here all the history of the conflict, but what is going on in Gaza must be stopped for good with the creation of a true Palestine state.

And criminal is also Trump who has moved the embassy to Jerusalem. Shame on him!

Enough of apartheid (hafrada), enough of crimes. Human rights! Children shot, jailed. Palestinians have seen all their rights taken, and not just the rights like their residence, but also land, food, water, pertrol, medicines, doctors …

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There is no life for Palestinians who just want and ask for their basic human rights to live! So who is blaming them does not know the conditions they live in.

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And lands confiscated. No food, water polluted …

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It is essential that worldwide we all condemn Israel. And it has already been done by lots of artists and writers.

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but it is not enough. We must stop this apartheid. Human rights: food, land, medical care, schools, documents …

It is not human. And lots of Jews also support Palestinians.

Crimes against children, also jailed, killed.

I want to remember here a saint, an angel, a paramedic who was shot in Gaza. She was wearing the doctor sign. She was shot anyway. (RIP)

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So I am asking you all to boycott Israel. The state of Israel. Not the Jews. Because it is not a matter of religion. There are, as I said, many Jews who are against Nethanyau and together with Palestinians.

We must condemn Nethanyau policy and apartheid and inhumanity.

We must stop these crimes!

Thanks and a big hug to you all.

 

Barbara

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

World Congress of Families (WCF) in Verona these days: a shame for my country!

Awful Congress is taking place also today in Verona, the city that is worldwide known for its so famous romantic Romeo and Juliet balcony … the city of love.

We are in 2019, an historical very difficult moment worldwide. Just a few days after what happened in New Zealand, after all these white supremacists terrorists coming out … a shameful congress that goes against all human rights, following extremists crazy principles and fake Catholic ideas!!! (Jesus was an immigrant, was not “white” and was not discriminating LGBT people!).

Women rights first of all. Because we struggled to get the law 194, for free abortion. And now these crazy people want to bring us back to Middle Ages, where women were dying trying to get an abortion at home, hidden.

In Ireland they just got the right of abortion a few months ago!

Here in Italy they want to bring us backward!!! Madness!!!!

And not just abortion, but also the role of women! At home making babies! No respect! No care for true equality men and women! We still have a huge gap also in terms of salary and in society between men and women, and they want to leave women home just cooking and taking care of children! Madness! Women deserve a career as much as men. Women has dreams, and a future that is not just cleaning and cooking! God sake!!!!

Shameful the position also toward the LGBT people. Politicians saying that being gay is an illness1 Madness! Gays are born gay!

Or transgender … There was an amazing speech by Vladimir Luxuria in tv a few weeks ago where she explained how she was bullied at school and she realized she was a she, and not a he, when she was 5 years old! She is of course telling everyone to stop bullying children who feel themselves! How can society be so discriminating and insulting not accepting everyone! She is a she! And these crazy people want her to be a man just because of part of her body!!!! When these days we are reading about Brunei and the law that allow them to kill with stones all gays! Madness! LGBT rights! And freedom of love who we fall in love with!

Verona the city of love. Love is LOVE!

Rainbow families, families made by parents with the same gender, exist! Even here in Italy but now they are under threat!

They want also to make illegal to have children! But a gay couple has the right to have a family!!!!

Madness!!!!!

I would like worldwide everyone could tell our current crazy politicians of far right parties that NO ONE can touch the RIGHTS!

A women body belongs just to herself! So the right for abortion!

True equality!

Respect and rights for LGBT people!!!!!!

Please world, everyone, raise your voice to stop this madness happening now here in Italy!

These politicians are just crazy!!!!!!!!! They have no respect for women, for gay and LGBT people!

We are in 2019!!!!!

Please we must stop this madness!!! My country cannot go backward because of these crazy right parties people!

Below the Guardian article about it.

Shame on my country!!!!!! Shame on the current government for this mad convention and for what they are saying. As a women, my rights, and my LGBT friends rights!

PLEASE SHARE!

We must raise the voice and stop this madness happening now in Verona, Italy.

Thanks everyone!

Take care you all

Barbara

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2019/mar/29/city-of-love-christian-right-congress-in-verona-divides-italy-league-extremism?CMP=share_btn_fb&fbclid=IwAR2EiiA8Y3TEdcErOtZERtNN21TVdnIZ4VIdHIeTmdiZIDZ2jRKHktvxd9k

21st of March world-wide day against RACISM

21st of March

Hi everyone.

Why today?

Today is the international day AGAINST RACISM. Yes. Sadly 2019 and we still have to deal with racism.

Rosa Parker did not live in vain. Martin Luther King had a dream that still is not reality, because still today people discriminate because of the color of the skin. Such a shame!

And people still go on speaking about races! How comes! Even Luca Cavalli Sforza, scientifically proved that it is impossible and very wrong also from the scientific point of view to speak about races in plural. There is only ONE HUMAN RACE, only one. We all come from the same group, we descend all from same anchestors. And even in the DNA we are all alike. We are all big mixtures.

So sad.

And as a consquence of this racism we face terrorist events like the one in New Zealand where 50 innocent people lost their lives because of a crazy white supremacist terrorist!

We are all one big family in this planet, called humanity!

And it is such a shame that people hide behind religion to justify killings.

All religions speak about love and peace. Terrorist have no religion! No one is allowed to kill in the name of a faith! Because all religions say it very clearly: killing is a crime, a crime against humanity!

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And I love the responsa #Jacinda #Arden gave as New Zealand Prime Minister.

We do not even have to pronounce the name of the terrorists. They must not become famous, as they would like to be. Who we must remember name by name are the victims. Children, innocent lives taken in the name of what? Madness.

As Martin Luther King was saying, we must all learn to live as brothers, as we are, or we will all perish as fools.

So the message today is to stop discriminating: we are all equal!

All the same in dignity and respect we must give and get!

No one should consider himself superior! There is no superior religion. No right and wrong religion. No one is pure and the others impure. We are ALL EQUAL!

True equality!

Stop judging! Each person is doing his personal pathway of growth. And faith is something that cannot be forced or imposed.

Faith should just be shown in our life as an example: we must be good people.

We will all be judged in the end about the love we had given. Nothing else matters. Nor the money, nor the power, nor the cars or the jewels.

Love.

And today is also the international day of poetry.

And not just this, today our brothers in India, and not just in India, celebrate the festivity of HOLI. The festivity of colors!

So happy Holi to everyone celebrating it!

Life is beautiful because of its colors.

And we all have the right to live and shine in this world. Same rights. Same dignity. Same respect!

And remember all, life is short: we must live it in the name of love. Nothing else matters!

Stop chasing material things.

Start giving. Because true happiness comes from giving.

Today give a smile, give your positive energy and vibes to the planet.

We must start making a better world with ourselves.

Put away all negativity and anger. Forgivness. Start anew with a fresh new hope, that if we all spread the light we can fight this darkness of racism and discriminations and hate!

A big hug to you all.

Melt your heart. Do not keep it closed and hardened.

Open it! Let the light and beauty of love come in. Forgive who hurts you. Love must be stronger than hate. No revenge. Love. Love and love only.

Every moment that goes away is time that will never come back. Life is so short.

Do not waste your hours in anger. Forgive. Forget. Build bonds of love. With everyone and especially those who hate who are the ones who need love the most. Remind them that only in love we can find true peace. Only loving we can be truly happy and give a real meaning to our existence.

And I am so ashamed about my current government here in Italy. Racist. Crazy.

Please spread messages worldwide. Salvini is the one who must go home, not the poor immigrants who arrive here escaping from war and hunger!

And we have European elections in May. Today we are all with European flags.

Because we must stay in Europe. And our Europe is not the Europe of Orban, is nto the Europe that Putin dreams to control. Is the Europe of rights and freedom. Is the Europe of true democracy where journalists are not put in jail because of what they say and because they speak the truth. Is the Europe where a couple where two men love each other has the right of holding hands and being together in a marriage. Rainbow families exist. And not like in Russian repressions and killings in Cecenia …

Europe is and should be the home for human rights for all. Because there should be no discriminations and free true democracy ruling each country. Not dictatorships run by power and corruptions and mafia.

So please we all must stop together these far right extremists and movements who want to go agains women rights, against human rights, against the environment and the planet.

The world is our home.

We all must stand to make it a better place in the name of love that must unite us, and not separate us. Unite us and not discirminate.

All together, no matter the color of the skin, the sex or the sexual orientation, the faith.

WE ARE ALL EQUAL.

And we must start building a better place to live from today. Today we must start a big fight against this increasing racism, homophobia, Islamophobia, xenophobia….

Love. Peace.

WE ARE JUST ONE

And even in our little realities we must put in practice this true equality, every day.

We must be the change we would like to see in the world.

Now!

Life is now!

 

Stay strong in the name of LOVE

A big hug to all

Take care

 

Barbara

 

 

 

8 th of March: women first?

Two days ago: WOMEN’S DAY. But what is it? What does it mean now in 2019?

What does it mean today to be a FEMINIST?

I guess the best reply is in a sign that has been shown in a march:

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This is the point: to be a true feminist means recognizing that a women is a person, with own value and not because she is someone’s mother or daughter or sister or wife. This is the essence of everything.

Because the definition of a women is that a women is a person!

with same rights as a men!

Same dreams of career, self growth, goals as a man.

A women does not dream just a family and children! And some do not want children or family and it is ok as well, or want a family but work and career too.

This is what should be understood by everyone! We deserve freedom to chose our own life and if we want a career and a family as well, it should be possible! No one should sacrifice their own life and future and studies! Ambitions, dreams must not be killed by anyone. And in this freedom we all deserve worldwide, there is also the freedom of chosing who to marry. Freedom for our destiny, freedom of indipendency, economically and not only economically. The possibility to live alone even if we haven’t found the right partner, or the possibility of living together with someone before getting married to get to know each other and see compatibility.

And stop to child marriage!

As adults women deserve same rights and freedom as men. Same!

And discriminations must stop!

As well as growing women playing with dolls and boys with cars. Dance for girls and football for boys! This is rubbish!

Each person should be free to play and do what they do like!

There are still too many prejudices and discriminations.

But above all worldwide women should be free and in charge of their own life!

And one last word for an orrific inhuman practice: infibulation. Worldwide we must stop this orrific violence against girls. Inhuman and prohibited but still done.

If you go on Wikipedia you can get enough info if you do not know what is it this abomination.

WE ALL HAVE THE RIGHT AND THE DUTY TO STAND FOR WHAT IS RIGHT, no matter what.

And we all must fight for a real and truly EQUAL WORLD.

True equalilty and no gender discrimination.

And another last note about the LGBT community. Each person deserves respect, and must be recognized in same dignity.

The struggle is for all countries where people must fake their own identity and love because otherwise they would be prosecuted and even killed. Shame!

We are in 2019. And all people must be accepted and not judged.

WE ARE EQUAL IN RIGHTS AND DIGNITY AND RESPECT we deserve.

And whoever considers himself superior because of religion or sex, or sexual orientation or country of origin, or birth place or status or color of the skin is simply not right and not human.

HUMANITY is recognizing we are brothers, all at the same level of dignity and respect that we must receive. No one is superior, no one is right and the others are wrong. Each person has their own way in this life, their own pathway. Different pathways, but no one should ever judge! There is no right or perfect religion, there is no right or wrong sexual orientation, there is no right or wrong color of the skin …

Discriminations must stop! Now!

And the 8th of March is to remind us all that we really all deserve true equality, not just women, but all.

Let’s make this planet a better place by stop judging and starting understanding, stop preaching and start listening and then maybe advice or speak but remembering that things like religion or sexual orientations are private matters, and no one should ever been judged or discriminated for that.

And stop seeing women in the house and men at work! The house is for both! Both cooking, both cleaning, both growing kids. These prejudices about roles are ancient!

So the 8th of March is for all of this, and not just for one day, we must stand up for what is right every single day starting from our own life, in every gesture or thing we do.

Women WE DESERVE RESPECT AND SAME RIGHTS AS MEN! SAME!

All the best to all of you, in all your personal or social struggles.

WE ARE IN CHARGE OF CHANGING THIS WORLD NOW. WE ARE WRITING THE HISTORY NOW!

 

Take care

See you soon

Barbara

 

Freedom of choice and justice against the madness of honour killing

Hi again,

this post I had to write it, as a women, as a free women living in a free country where I will never be forced by my parents in a marriage I do not agree to. I am a free person! Free to decide for my life and my future!

I would like to talk to you about Sana Cheema, if you don’t know who she was.

A young women (26) half Italian half Pakistani, who lived most of her life in Italy, who fell in love with an Italian-Pakistani guy in Italy, but her parents forced her back in Pakistan for an arranged marriage she did not want. And there, in Pakistan ( in Gujrat in April 2018), she was murdered.

She was buried quickly without an autopsy, but then the body (exhumed) was examined by court after a case on her, and yes, she has been strangled! But now? A court has finally set free the killers for lack of proof!!!!!! Her relatives are free! We ask justice for her!!!! Her father also adimitted it!!!!!

Here the article to understand it better!

This article makes it clear that she was strangled by her father with the help of her brother. And why are they now free? Where is justice????

https://www.dawn.com/news/1463998?fbclid=IwAR3eKxQA8bPER7nersW03wJ26pTNj02CVl32atWdBPlpkhzlUje3XMVUKNw

Please share on social media with the hashtags

#TruthForSana #VeritàPerSana #SanaCheema

And also we have to stop this honour killings! A women, any adult, any person is free to decide for her/his own future!!!!! Why parents have to force their children in marriages they do not want!!!!?????? Why????? We all deserve the freedom to decide our own life by ourselves!!!!!

And killing someone in the name of honour is a shame that just shows how people have no humanity, no dignity, no respect! Killing is always wrong, and always a shame!!!!!

And it is not a matter of religion, it is a matter of HUMANITY!!!!!!!! Lost if you kill. Lost!!!!!!

We haven’t been given life by ourselves, so no one has the right to take a life away!!!!

And what is honour???? If you kill a son or a daughter or anyone you are just a murderer and a killer, who can just be blamed. Shame on killers! Shame!!!!!!!

And if not on this planet GOD will make TRUE JUSTICE!!!!!

RIP to poor Sana Cheema. Her life broken in such a young age for what? For the selfish madness of a family who cannot accept that a daughter is a person! Not an object! A person who has the right to decide for her own future and life! God sake!

Enough of this madness!!!!!! Enough!!!!!!

Freedom and equal rights for everyone!!!!!!!! True equality!

Stop this madness! Stop!

And justice for her! Her father must go to jail!!!!!!!!

 

Sana

 

Please share the hashtag on social media.

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#VeritàPerSana #TruthForSana

Thanks to you all. Is important. The world cannot stay indifferent! Justice must be made!!!!!

 

Big hug to you all.

Because humanity is one. The planet is one. And we all must stand together for justice and what is right! Human rights!

Take care

 

Barbara

 

 

 

Buy Sardinian milk and cheese and dairy products

Hi everyone,

today an article that is about an Italian Region very dear to me, Sardinia island. Beautiful land of traditions and seaside and landscapes …

What is happening is awful.

There is a tradition of farmers and goats and sheeps on the island, and actually the milk of Sardinian sheeps is also used to make the so famous Pecorino Romano cheese (60% of it is made with Sardinian milk).

What is happening is that the milk is being paid 60 cents of euro! Not enough to cover the costs of keeping (breeding) the sheeps, getting the milk … it is not an industry! It is a traditional hand-made job and care of generations. And in the last ten years there was a loss of 1 million sheeps. And 40% of the sheeps in Italy are grown in Sardinia.

They have started to pour milk in the streets to protest. Protests going on for days, and still the situation is not solved: they are asking the price of 0,77 euro per litre. (it was 0,85 at the beginning of 2018, now 0,66 is not enough for them to survive!).

12.000 of breedings are at risk of closure!

The government for now is just speaking as usual without anything done for real.

I am so ashamed by the present government that does not represent me at all. We are a shame in all Europe now. And our economy is getting worse and worse because of these people who do not know how to run a country and are just able to create enimies everywhere.

So what I am asking to all of you is to buy Sardinian food, order it even online or directly from the farmers, show Sardinian people that you care about them, and the traditions they are carrying on are one of the beauties of our country we must defend!

So please buy something Sardinian from the Sardinian dairy (sheep) production.

They need our support.

Thanks everyone. And even if you just raise the issue with your friends. 2019 we cannot pay 0,66 euro per litre a milk that is not a chemical industrial product but the result of hours and days and weeks of hard job and a daily care of the animals. No machines. A local, small dimensions tradition that makes the beauty and the uniqueness of that amazing land that is Sardinia island.

Please share

Thanks to you all

 

Barbara

#iostoconipastorisardi

#Sardegna

 

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San Valentine is it worthy?

Hi everyone,

tomorrow is the day … yes San Valentine.

Is it worthy?

I mean is it still worthy to celebrate it?

What does it really mean?

Can a day take the place of the relationship in its whole? Can be happiness and joy and gifts concentrated just in silly recurrent dates during the years?

Is a relationship just the spark of one day?

Just the passion of a few hours? Just the joy of giving and receiving and spending happy time together only and truly one day per year?

I think that if there are not 364 days where a couple is happy, there is no point to celebrate just one day out of 365.

If there is no real care, attention, love, joy, time together, gifts, attention …

San Valentine can be true only if it is not just one day, but if it is the remembrance of all the days of the year, all life that is a true real presence in each other’s existence.

And a presence is necessary, is needed, is the true consequence of a pure feeling, love, that just wants to feel that soul near, no matter what, no matter physical distance, no matter material stuff. A closeness, natural necessity, that is being truly in love.

Souls connected, souls bound with a chain that does not need to be made, but exists by itself.

Because love is free. Love is freedom, Is a free choice. Being free to love. And living a feeling. Letting the other people know where the heart is, what matters.

We live in societies where image is more important than essence. Appeareance is more important than soul and inner self. Feelings. Pushed away, hidden, shut down.

To love is to be free to make the soul express itself. Love is being a presence, love is living when not just your only life matters, but someone else’s becomes a priority.

Love is the essence of existence. Our being here on this planet.

San Valentine should be the celebration of pure love. That magic soul connection that needs no explainations, and no approval, but the heart’s. Love is a feeling that cannot be asked or pretended. Just is.

And when two souls meet each other and find a bound, then nothing else matters. Not even a silly celebration of a day, because love is beyond space and time, is above everything.

A day will not make the difference if there is just appearance and formal celebrations. Meaningless.

On the contrary if love exists, San Valentine will not change anything, it will be just another day to remember what is a daily permanent soul condition: being in love.

So I wish you all HAPPY SAN VALENTINE DAY.

Live it not as the last one, nor as the first one, or a spot one. Live it as the day of the days. Where love is not just one day. Love is a commitment that goese beyond, a presence that is not just for one day, but always, with the souls bound and never ever apart. When being is the essence. Love is not a tag or a label to write in a card with a rose or some chocolate. Love is being in someone else’s life with no way to think of our own life without that person. Love is an added meaning to our existence.

Share love, share your feelings, be a presence and not an absence. Because every human being can survive alone, but when there is another person in our existence the meanings change, the purpose changes, and colors appear, and light shines everywhere, from within a song from the heart.

LOVE. Be happy.

All the best to you all.

Happy celebrations and when you say “I love you”, truly mean it.

Love can only be true.

Take care

 

Never Revenge, let Karma do its job

Hi everyone,

this morning a topic that might look banal but actually is not.

We are living in a world and in societies where more and more people seek revenge.

People who have been hurted or wronged have this crazy need of revenge, of getting something back, as if it could decrease the pain they feel, seeing someone else suffering.

Where is compassion?

Once a damage has been done it cannot be taken back!

So what is the point of punishing someone. Would you really feel better, feeling like “justice done”?

An eye for an eye?

Honor?

No. I am sorry but it does not work like this. If you have a little bit of heart you cannot be happy and enjoy seeing another human being suffer, not even if they did you wrong.

Leave to God the judgment. And by the way He is Endless Mercy, so …

It is so mean to wish bad luck to the others, to want revenge, to wish pain. This will not make us feel any better. Deep down how can you be happy of other people pain?

As Dalai Lama never stops advising, we all must seek compassion. And for who hurted us Karma does its job, not us.

And personally I think that the best wish is to hope they could realize the mistake they did and the pain they caused and feel consequently sorry for it. Repentance. And then forgivness, asking for forgivness and forgiving who did us wrong.

We all live and learn and make mistakes. We all must move forward. We all must forgive and apologize. And move on.

Painful but there is only one way to grow: through experiences that teach us more than hundred words.

So stop replying to anger with anger. Stop giving back hate to hate.

As Martin Luther King was saying:

“Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that.

Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.”

So let us reply with love and compassion to those who hurt us. Because who hates is the one who most needs love. Who is angry is the one who most needs compassion.

To hate and hurt is pointless.

If you start filling your soul with love, love to spread to everyone, you will begin to see colors again in this world.

We are here to love each other. And the purpose in life is to love. Material stuff won’t last. Only love moves on and is immortal, as our soul that needs love to be fed.

Start with loving yourself, forgiving your mistakes, letting go, moving on from the past where no one can anymore live.

Breathe. We are alive and this is already the most beautiful gift we should be thankful for.

Let us do not waste a single day. Every day should be a new chance to love, to give, to feel. We are here for being alive for real. Following our heart and what really matters. People and not objects. Love and not material richness or power.

Stop using people and wanting things. We must do the opposite.

Respect to everyone. Never consider yourself superior to anyone. We are all alike in this planet and we will all go back to ashes, not with gold or material richnesses or any of our belongings with us.

What is material will perish. Only love will survive and remain even when we will not anyomore be on this planet.

Becuase only love is ethernal.

Seek for souls, not for bodies.

Love people in their deep inner essence, and make connections based on true feelings that could last. True friendships. True love.

Life is short. Do not waste it in crazy revenge and hate.

Make your soul free from bad energies. Fill it with love and positivity and sunshine.

Love is and will be the answer always.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Do not be “average”! We cannot live half way even our relationships.

Hi everyone!

After my birthday, 40 years old! I am writing this post for all of you who still, like me, do not feel have reached enough, or do not feel enough with themselves, and just accept reality and even jobs and relationships in a half way. Not a fullfilling story or job, but something “average”.

I found on Facebook the word “situationship” and it is quite fitting. We find ourselves in just “situations” not being brave enough or not feeling the rights to say no: we all deserve a 100% relationship, a real fullfilling and satisfying job. If it is not the case, we do not have to be afraid to quit. We will not lose a realtionship or a job, actually we will gain ourselves back, because we cannot live half way. We all deserve a true relationship with a companion, and not just a lazy “situationship” for fun and no commitment, and just in the spare time.

We all deserve a job that can give us something, instead of just taking away all our menthal and physical energies.

We deserve better. And especially in relationships there are no bills to be paid, or car or exepenses. Relationships are a plus in our existence, so because they are not necessary, when they exist they must be full and 100% involving.

People who do not want a true commitment or a true bound are just immature. Every story we have with someone should be lived as a commitment.

Then we all make mistakes, but we must give the other person the 100% of us in terms of attention, care, life. Living a relationship half way is simply not possible because we must respect ourselves first, and we deserve a true union.

Excuses are not accepted. We all have and live busy lives. If we want to be with someone we must be not just in the spare time and when is convenient, but always, with our mind, heart and soul. Relationships must be fully lived. This trend of “situationships” when people are together but only when they are free otherwise they can forget about the other person’s existence, is so sad and unacceptable.

Better to be alone than wasting our time and life with who does not deserve us because is simply not there for us 100%. Mutual love, respect, attention, care, presence. It should be simple, then it is always up to us to make it complicated. But we all are called to live honestly not pretending feelings that are not there, not being afraid to say no, demanding a real relationship, always.

Life is too short to be lived half way.

Stop pretending and start truly living. Feeling, getting commitments, being truly alive with what we all deserve: relationships that are not an half way, but a complete giving. A risk, a bet that no one knows if it will work or not, but still an investement of ourselves we must do.

Life is not meant to be watched from distance, but lived from the inside with a true heart beating, never stopping dreaming for better days to come because we all deserve it.

And yes we can. If we can dream it, we can do it.

All the best to everyone of you.

Stay blessed in the name of love always. And remember that whenver you will be following your heart, it will never be a mistake. Live with a pure heart, follow it. Clean your soul from what does not matter. Nourish your thoughts with positivity, because being alive is the miracle we live every single day.

Take care

 

See you soon

 

Barbara